Posted by Fat Cat on May 06, 2006 at 17:13:18:
Ask a Vet: Cat's constant licking is a sign of affection
By SARA THOMPSON
Special to the Eagle
Dear Sara: When I'm watching TV or reading, my cat thinks she belongs in my lap. Then she will often proceed to lick my hand extensively, even moving up my arm. Why is she doing this? Is she giving affection? Does she just like the taste of my skin?
A: I believe that your kitty is showing affection by licking your skin while she sits in your lap. This is a common behavior.
To understand why she does this, we must consider how cats interact naturally. Many cats engage in mutual grooming with other friendly cats in the household. Two friendly cats may take turns licking and grooming each other.
Many behaviorists believe this is a social interaction and not necessarily related to hygiene. Your cat does not think you are another cat, but you are part of the social structure in the household. This grooming behavior or licking is her way of showing and soliciting affection.
This is not a bad thing, but most people do not want to let their cat lick them for long periods. For one thing, cats have sandpaper for tongues, and the licking quickly becomes painful. Also, the licking may have become an attention-seeking behavior that is better stopped sooner rather than later.
Your little kitty probably discovered that when she jumps on your lap while you are watching TV, you would pet her. She also learned that when she licked you as she would another feline friend, you will pet her and pay attention to her.
This is not necessarily a problem, but you must decide whether you mind the licking.
The important thing is to be consistent. You must either never allow her to lick you like that or deal with the licking when she wants attention.
If you do not want her to lick you, ignore her completely. You should move to a different chair or another part of the couch. Do not reprimand her or give her any attention.
She may initially be more persistent, but should quickly learn that licking will not get your attention.
Ignoring persistent pets is the most effective way to curb attention-seeking behavior. You can eliminate jumping dogs or barking dogs or cats meowing for food by ignoring the pet and leaving the room.
By creating a routine playtime or snuggle time and ignoring any undesirable behavior, you can enjoy a happy, fulfilling relationship with your cat companion.
� Sara Thompson is finishing her last semester at Texas A&M University's College of Veterinary Medicine. Send pet behavior questions to her at ssthompson@cvm.tamu.edu.
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